March 31 is Trans Day of Visibility. We celebrate transgender people. We shine a light on their stories. We recognize the challenges they face and cheer for their success. We pledge to fight for a more inclusive world. Pauline Bosma started the Rainbow Groups. These are support groups for LGBTQ+ people who also have intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD). She has worked hard to create spaces where people can connect. She is a fierce advocate for trans rights. We sat down with her to talk about this important day.
“Don’t try to change me. And don’t judge me, because I won’t judge you!”
– Pauline Bosma
What does Trans Day of Visibility mean to you?
Pauline says that visibility is about more than just being seen. It’s about being respected. For her, Trans Day of Visibility means being proud of who she is and the work she does. She knows that every trans person’s journey is different. There is no one way to experience being trans. She encourages people to celebrate their own unique paths. She wants them to embrace the life that makes them happy.
What about being trans brings you joy?
Pauline says her work with the Rainbow Groups gives her joy. “I am a pioneer,” she says. “I am creating things that will be used.” Pauline feels at home when she is teaching others about being trans and having a disability. She feels powerful and knowledgeable. She knows others see her that way, too.
How can people be great allies to trans people?
Pauline says allies must be caring, thoughtful, and understanding. But they must also back that up with action. They must be out in the public supporting people who are trans and fighting for their rights. They must do this every day, not just on Trans Day of Visibility.
The best thing allies can do, Pauline says, is to listen and ask how they can help. Then they need to follow through. “Leave your values at the door,” she says. Each person knows what is best for them. Respect their choices and fight for their right to make them.
Learn more and take action!
Want to learn more about this?
- Check out the Trans Voices playlist on our YouTube channel. It even includes some interviews with Pauline herself!
- Learn more about Rainbow Groups at Mass Advocates Standing Strong.
- Check out Pauline’s Rainbow Guidebook.
Trans visibility is about more than being seen. It’s about being valued. Let’s work together to build a world where everyone feels valued. Let’s be fierce allies for trans people and others in the disability and LGBTQ+ communities.